Search for Love.... Wait for it...Or have you lost it??

Everyone has come to this part of there lives called the Grey area.

Reason why i decided to write about this is to see if there is people out there that might have the same views as me or those who will disagree.

Just once in your life.. Go stand in the center of your universe and watch and listen to your friends and their relationships or even random people... How many of them is truelove happy.. How long have they been in a relationship.

I have been in a few relationship. It was amazing while being in them. But after!! The breakups ... the decision to let go. What do you do? Do you cry? Do you move on? Do you want the person back cos you feel empty and being with that person makes you feel better? And for how long? Are you honest with yourself? Can you still be friends? the scenario changes.. Your world changes.. People you see changes..

How many people believe in true love? or even love at first sight?
The question i always get is.. How do i know when i meet the right person? :-) the question alone is something to think about.. But the answer is simple.. You will know.. Or at least you will feel it.
But don't get confused. because feelings can make you think differently.. or sometimes they say..
LOVE is blind.. lol.. and yes its true.. feelings can make you blind.. Makes you mind believe that somethings is perfect.. but when the feelings disappear..... Things start to change.. But LOVE on the other hand is constant, amazing, beautiful and you will see it when you look it right in the eye.

Then again... I have to say. That relationship isn't always "Love at first sight" .. Sometimes you are compatible "FRIENDS".. You enjoy each others company.. Although some people will agree that they do have feelings for someone.. They still don't have that "LOVE" for them.. That's normally when the one person feels he wants to commit.. but the other still not sure.. and that causes friction.. Lets go to the science class.. Friction is.. "Conflict, as between persons having dissimilar ideas or interests or clash"

Now when someone need an companion..They always ask.. When will i find the right person?.. Or where will i find the right person..?

Talking is a start. Go out with friends. Meet more friends.. you need to get the ball rolling..

THen i follow the words of wisdom.. and this i do believe..
Love isn't meant to be falling for anyone.
Patience pays off, waiting will be rewarded.
Wait til your soul says 'This is the One',
Then you'll be sure that,Although you might get hurt, pain you can endure,
Because you know that you are meant to be.
And you'll wait however long is necessary,
for the one you love to realise that.

But everyone has different views and some would say.. That is old school.. Waiting isn't fun.
And people would probably think .. Warren why would you type such a long note..

I would like to add.. to those that have been in relationship and struggling to get over it.
"Such is life" -- whether you have been wrong or your partner have been wrong or just an agreement to part... Remember this.. life does not stop. Yes its not fun to break up. It does hurt, Cry as much as you want... I bet you asking yourself "where did it go wrong?" ... sometimes i think for you to go down and cry and feel down and out and thinking that life is so unfair.. why me? why today? why this ? why that..? is so selfish.. thinking nobody cares.. while there are people reaching out who really cares!!

sometimes your mind just take over and do with you what it likes.. and we just allow it.

So why do people decide to part?
There is probably a lot of reasons. But most common is TRUST..
being in a relationship with no TRUST can be great when you with the person.. But when you not?
CHEATING is another one..and then people moving away from each other.. Long distance..
and non compatible partners.. Friction..

But love crosses boundaries. And who can stop love?

What is LOVE? have you ever tried to google it?
Yet they say that even the great philosophers, with their profound definitions, could not fully touch its true essence.

So i would assume and say that love has a different meaning to each person.

But in reality relationship is either PERFECT..or not so perfect or BAD..

Now where do you draw the line in relationships. Where have you lost it?
And what is the reason's you still holding on to them?

Relationships is about sharing things and yes you will share things that are just between you and that person. But does that have to keep you holding on if things don't work out?

i still have a subject to talk about but ill leave that for another note.. it handles about a relationship and why people still stay in BAD relationships.. Stay tuned for a next note..

i want to say that LOVE is real. Its out there.. be patient..
But most importantly...

Be true to yourself! :-)